I am sure right now it does not seem worth it all, but in years to come they will look back on this and say 'hey we got through it didn't we"? not much fun living in such dis-order, but hey one bathroom isn't that bad ya know, we have four here and have only ever had the one bathroom.

Hopefully things will get finished soon and they will beable to live in harmony once again, until then I wish you all well and hope for a quick end to your distress.