Tonya,
I just saw this post, or would have responded last week. This sounds like the same situation my girlfriend was in with her oldest son, Matthew. Matthew is 3. My friend has 3 dogs and 5 cats, and Matthew developed allergies. He is on meds, the animals are kept out of his room, etc. The biggest help to her household? Get rid of ALL the carpets/drapes, etc. Now, she could afford to get hardwood floors. I know that is not very realistic for most of us. But, could you re-do Jaden's room?

Just a thought.....