Then there is another hard question....how do we define "rape". I feel that I was "raped" when my ex popped a condom to get me pregnant....but I don't think it was rape in the traditional sense of the word since I did not object to the actual act. If abortion were allowed only in cases of rape, would this be grounds for an abortion since I was mislead, or would it not, since I willingly trusted my then boyfriend to do what he said he was going to?

There are so many of these grey areas, it would be impossible to come to a happy medium for everyone.

doggylovr: We're trying to be somewhat NONconfrontational here...let's not just throw around statements that are only going to get this thread locked, mmkay?