I think my own personal frustration comes out when I see (in my work) young women having babies unprepared and then just let mom or grandma raise them (which is sometimes a good idea and sometimes a BAD idea- parents and grandparents often resent caring for the babies and toddlers of their own children). And sometimes the home they are passed to is a drug passing place cuz the parent are not wise enough to see the signs. this puts the babies and kids at risk. As far as rich people go, madonna waited, Angelina is in her late 30's, Christine Applegate JUST got married and talks about how it's important to wait. I have been working with senior citizens for a long time, and mostly women. I can't tell you how many times I have heard about dreams to be nurses, teachers, etc, "but my husband knocked me up and that was that!" And they don't resent the life they did have, they just wonder how their lives would have been different!