I too am one of those mothers, my daughter is 12, and I gave into pressure and let her dye her hair, and I regret it, she wants to keep changing it, from blonde to red, she was a natural Ash blonde, but her hair has now gone darker, she does however pay for the hair dye herself, I would have preferred to pay more and have blonde highlights in her hair, which would have brought through her natural blonde again I think.

I know its hard growing up and wanting these things, but you will soon be old enough to do whatever you want, so hang on in there, maybe your mother will compromise and let you have suttle highlights like Logan's daughter.