Thanks all, yes they rang me today to remind me of my appointment, as if I could forget!!!!
I am glad there are some other members of the BIG BABY CLUB here too, makes me feel not so silly.
I am hoping its no big deal, its not a big part of the filling that has fallen out, but you never know with dentists, probably decide to take the whole lot out and replace it, it kinda fills almost the whole tooth, so that concerns me just a tad

Take note all you lucky people with no fillings, I needed treatment to my teeth, but could not afford it at the time, and not long after was pregnant with my first child, you guessed it, after that I lost some of my teeth, luckily where no one can see and needed extensive treatment, i then had them all fixed all at once under the intravenous sedation , as I mentioned before , so it was a piece of cake, and nothing to be scared of, I also had an oral surgeon fix the rest.

I really take care of my teeth, but wear and tear is inevitable, actually I blame the darn dentist a bit, she told me to start flossing, so I did and it kept getting caught in this particular tooth, and I believe it has slowly but surely dislodged that part of the filling.

I shall probably have nightmares tonight about going, I am still scared.