Originally posted by sirrahbed


In our denomination (Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod), at least where we belonged, there is no open casket because we do not believe the person is any longer there. Some people may have a viewing but I have never known of one. There are also no flowers. The "funeral" is a rather comforting and joyous occasion and is referred to as a "coronation' since we know that the believer has gone to eternal life and the funeral is to celebrate that fact. My hubby and I do not want a funeral however - simply a graveside burial that will already be paid in advance so nobody has to think about planning or be stuck with the cost. We will have vaults (so the ground does not cave in) because they are required by law but only wooden non pressure sealed boxes.
I was taught the same things. I myself would rather have people have a good time instead of them being sad. I dislike it very much when people are sad and try really hard to make people well...not sad lol. I'd want people to rember that and all the goofy stuff I've done and in general get a good laugh. I've been to too many sad, teary funerals and I wouldn't want to put that burden on to anyone else.