I just now saw this and am so saddened by it. I really don't know what to tell you. I agree that Major should be at a friend's house where he's safe. I would be afraid to leave him by himself with her. Also, her violent temper needs to be addressed. Would she go to counseling with you? It sounds like she needs at least that, and maybe some medication. Also, if she's around my age(40) that menopause stuff is very rough. It sometimes turns you into someone you don't like. However, I just get really stressed and grouchy, never violent. She and you need some help. Where is your dad in the picture? Does he support you? If you could, it might be a good idea for all of you to get involved in counseling. Please don't give up. There's always hope. At least call that number in Canada and see what they say. Pm me if you ever need to talk. I'm on every day.