I'm in agreement with a lot of you. My mom and I want a jazz funeral . Donate organs, cremate, then have a huge happy party . Mom wants to be scattered in her rose bed. I want to have mine sent to the Tillimock light house . The have a place to put a plaque in your honor and once a month they scatter the ashes into the Pacific ocean from the light house. Or you can have them inturned there. I want to be scattered. I love the whales and ocean life.