Tina I hear what you are saying, I have been here at least a year and half and have over 3000 posts, and I am fairly well known by now I think, as I always have a lot to say lol, but don't feel bad, I don't get into the fav pt thing either or asked about my cats much, but I just take it with a grain of salt, I know there are some lovely people here who do really care about me, and that is all that matters, so keep posting , you will find your niche sooner or later, and if not well, it is still fun to be here and you learn new things everyday.