catnapper- they are offering him the opportunity to leave quietly... well isn't that nobel...? I mean IMMORAL AND ILLEGAL? If I worked for a school system or was a parent of a child in that school system or was a parent or employee of the next school system or job he goes to, I would be outraged. Naked and promiscuous doesn't matter- if your son can walk away, he is a better role model! (Good mother that you must be!!!!- be proud of yourself and messages he got from you and all other care providers- he GOT it! YAY!) Doesn't it just seem out and out wrong to "offer" him a choice when the truth is known? Well, is the girl NOT underage? Maybe that's what I'm missing here- I am assuming she is- she must not be. She will end up with HIV and a bunch of babies and lost loves, and in lots of trouble with the law in no time. Keep in mind. Most girls who act like this were taught to use sexuality to get attention. They were molested by male family members from who they needed love, respect and attention- this is the message THEY got.