I voted for email, instant message and snail mail. I actually enjoy writing letters, even tho no one really writes anymore. I love getting real mail. A card, a letter, pictures. But it never happens. Hell, I hardly get email these days. *sigh* But I don't use the phone much, just cuz it's usually easier to find my friends and such online. And with some friends and family all over the world, email is more practical.