This has got to be such a hard time for your family. I agree with Slick in that if your grandmother is of sound mind enough to make a decision like that, she should be allowed to go home. No one should have to go to a home if they don't want to. I know I never want to be in that situation. I never want to be in a home. All of us here at PT are supporting you, and you'll be in our thoughts. I hope everything goes well, and wish your grandmother a swift recovery!