Thank you peps,

I have spoken to the oncologist and he advised to get a needle aspirate done soon. He said that as the demodex is present this could cause these glands to be up. Also said sub mandibular glands are very re-active so that reassures me a bit...

He also said get samples from both glands so I have booked Tag in for Monday for this to be done.

Thank you for your help and now I have a tense few days -

Doesn't this stuff wear you out?

Thank you all much.

Love from Isabel and Tag!