Years ago now, I had a beautiful all white cat with clear blue eyes named Sugar. He was my best friend. Everyone I knew loved my Sugar.

When he turned 16 I had a birthday party for him. Everyone gave me a really hard time, but they all came and I noticed that each and every one also brought a present, food, a toy - something. Was he spoiled? You betcha! Because he deserved it and just gave and gave love in return. I feel that once you have some training in place, you cannot spoil your pets enough.