Originally posted by carole
Cass I was so sorry to hear your news of the split with Dan, However if he was becoming abusive, then girl you did the right thing, it is hard to do, and a lot of women just cannot make the break especially when children are involved.

Your new Beau is a cutie pie for sure, I just hope you are not rushing into things too fast sweetie, yeah there goes that motherly advice again, but I am pleased to hear you have found someone that makes you happy, I hope things work out for you both, but Cass just be careful ok.
We'll, we've actually been talking for quite a little while. Rushing, ya, maybe, but we both want this, and it feels right. I had to do what was right. Dan is always yelling, swearing at me etc. A few weeks ago I was on the way to work when he slammed on the breaks and cursed me out, in front of everyone, and Dylan. I've been in an abusive relationship before, and I didn't leave as I had pets then and I was so young and stupid. I don't and won't put up with it now. I gave him a chance to change and he didn't, so that's his fault. I'm not going to waste my life for him. Plus, Dylan doesn't need to hear two people fighting all the time.

I will definitely be careful, for sure! Actually, we are both being careful. We are both scared for the same reasons, but something is drawing us to eachother, and there is nothing we can do about it. I appreciate your motherly advice always.