I am more or less the same in real life as here, (just as paranoid ).

I totally agree with Micki when she wrote...
Originally posted by micki76
... If I don't like someone, I generally don't reply to them in any way, shape, or form. I stay out of their way and if it's a mutual dislike, I expect the same from them.

... But yeah, pretending to be friends with a person in public and then badmouthing them in private is nauseating.
Chris