Gosh you seem to be making wonderful progress with your neighbour,this is so encouraging to hear, let us hope you can educate her well, and maybe she will never neglect a kitty again.

I still think Midnight is in the best place possible with you, naturally she will respond to the only person she has known, whether or not she took good care of her, if she was not physically abusive to her,its all she knows i guess.

In time she will love you and realise what a wonderful home she finally has. Good luck with your new baby.