Firstly Richard I don't think anyone minds that you wish to read all about us women and our very personal problems, after all it is a public forum, I think it was the tongue in cheek humour that just was not appreciated this time around, there is a time and place for everything, this was not it.,having said that consider your hand smacked, and I wanted to say I have always found you to be a great guy, with a very sympathetic attitude to us women, and working in a hospital you will have seen plenty, you just have to tread carefully in some of these threads with us women ok mate.!!!! I for one want to concentrate on the subject in hand and help Teenster if we can.
Teenster I wish there was something I could say or do to help you out with your depression, I know exactly how you feel, my life is very much affected by similar problems, and restricted by it as well,I have been oh so tempted to go under the knife, especially as my mother had a hysterectomy recently and it was a breeze, but you are young and wanting a family.
No doubt you have been to a specialist? is there nothing they can do, its a vicious cycle, being in constant pain, causes depression, and so on, its all part of the illness.
I cannot stress this enough Teenster you must get your hubby educated, you need his support and understanding and empathy and TLC at this , please persuade him to go to a support group or something with you,he is not helping your situation at all with his lack of understanding and care.
I Find support groups are wonderful for a short time, after a while they to me become a little depressing, but it is good to be amongst people who acknowledge your suffering and can offer advice , help and understanding.
Some of us women have been handed a very bad deal, but we just have to get on with it,and at times it is very difficult, Teenster I can only offer you my sincere empathy, HUGS , and advice, and wish for your pain to ease soon , and that you can find something that actually helps, good luck my dear.
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