I am sorry Kirsten that your stepdad is acting like such an ass****, if I was your mother, he would get a really huge chunk of my mind. I wish she would realize that you are more important than the stepdad!

Its a shame you are not close to us Pet Talkers, we would all be there in a flash to help you, and make sure you didn't hurt yourself. And I promise we would keep the door shut!

It is so hard to know there is a friend stuggling to get something done for her, and there is no way we can all help you.

You feel free to vent all you want, we are here to listen and to fume right along with you.

Take care!

Willie