I don't think anyone in this thread has been unkind, they have all offered Kay advice and opinions and Kay has answered them all politely and explained to everyone exactly how the situation will be.

To be honest having a safe indoor/outdoor area would be my choice, and I believe the purrfect life for a kitty, so I have no problem with that, my only concerns are for how the dog/kitty relationship will be.

Good luck Kay with whatever you decide, everyone here knows how responsible and committed you are, and any fears they have are genuine and have been relayed to you out of pure concern only.