All of your posts have really gotten me thinking even more! I appreciate your openness and willingness to share your feelings on this delicate subject! I think for me, being overweight gives me a sense of freedom from worry. As a thin young woman, I always felt pressured to dress a certain way, and everything had to fit every curve just right ... and I was NEVER totally satisfied! Now that I am overweight, it just doesn't matter to me anymore, I can buy something simply because I like the fabric or the color or print and it is comfortable to wear .... and don't have to worry about it being form-fitting to perfection!!! Now, I would like to believe, that when people look at me, they can truly like ME for whom I am ... and if they compliment my outfit, then they truly like my outfit, and my taste in color ... and not just whether it is the latest trend, or if it fits my body accordingly! I am much happier and accepting of myself as well. I see my spirit, my heart, my willingness to help others, and my compassion for those who are hurting .... I don't see me on the surface anymore, I see me INSIDE. Am I just finally growning up? Maybe! But I also truly believe that by giving up my superficial perceptions of myself, I have found my TRUE self!
Thanks for listening!