I jumped ahead and didn't read all of the posts, just so I could offer you some sympathy in this new situation.

Yes, Karen said it just right.........feels like a gut punch.

Give yourselves a day or two to get the new situation under your belt.

Yes, he probably will need some time alone.........don't be hurt by that, he is having a difficult time and may need his space.

Faith........this has happened for a reason.........and now is the time to rely on God's judgement and ask Him for guidance and support.

Is it possible that he could do some freelance consulting work in his field? In other words, start up his own business?

I will follow this thread and please know that you will have my prayers that all will work out for you both.,

I am glad that you felt you could share with us - and you know that everyone of us is here for you and cares!