Having been in the same position as your husband, I can understand how frightening it is for him and you. I also realize there is little that anyone of us can say or do that will make that feeling go away. Just know that some of us have had the experience and we have all made it through and generally it has worked out for the better (even though it may not seem like it at the time).

Know that we are thinking of you and praying for you and your gang.