Kay to be honest I can understand how much you want a cat, I mean who wouldn't? but I am in two minds as to whether it would be a fair life for the cat, I know living in a shelter is not the greatest, and you would give it so much love,but it just does not seem the ideal situation to me, I mean yes it could work out ok,but keep in mind cats are very social animals, and love company, apart from the odd exception., and I can imagine you would love your kitty snuggled up on your bed at night, don't you think?

Even though you have asked for opinions, I know you , yourself will know what is the best thing to do. good luck with your decision , should your dad give you the go ahead.