DEarerst Friend,
Hubby is calmed down.. I was in tears becasue I love my babies so very much.... he agreed that we need to move the litter box upstairs. he loves Shadow dearly but is stressed to find her using his office as her personal potty. He said that Shadow is still upset becasue of Clayton. I said Clayton has been here for 4 months now, I have a feeling that something else is going on. When I suggested that she could be getting dementia he just looked at me. I said YES.. animals get dementia too. She is 14.. equuivalent to 84. Our daughter , who is home from college said that Shadow has been acting "weird". I'll make an appt to tak eher to the vet... IF I can catch her.

THank you so much for bring here for me.. as always and again.

Blessings and love,
Mommacat... Deb