I also do not believe anyone should feel odd or like they have to go on medication because of a social anxiety. That is, unless it is something extreme and debilitating. That is the fine line I talked about before. Being shy and withdrawn (now known as *social anxiety* and I hate all those labels!) CAN be part of who we are and that should not be something with a label. BUT there are times when it IS a disorder. Gets complicated doesn't it?? Another reason I am glad to see more people talking about this stuff!!

Sometimes I enjoy getting out with people, but I tend to be withdrawn most of the time. I think it is normal for my personality. I have never been a social butterfly. When I was in my major episodes, however, I carried it to a terrible extreme. I would not even leave my room. The few times I did go to a store, I left my cart and ran to the car. I tried church and ran out to hide. So, I have to keep watch for these warning signs. Now, even when I am FINE, I am slightly withdrawn. It is ME and it is OK. No pill will make me different That said - other people have a phobia so debilitating and extreme that they cannot function normally without some medical help and it is wonderful that a bit of chemical change enamble them to live their lives again! Sometimes, it mat only take a few months or years to get back to normal, others may need to medicate always. NO BIG DEAL.

I like to use famous peole as examples. THE have the same fears phobias and disorders as everyone else - to all degrees. Some over come with medication and help. Try entering 'famous people mental illness' into google and you may be surprised!