Hey Zippy:-)
This is Boomer from the house bun chat.Some of the suggestions I have might seem VERY weird to you but trust me they are tried and true.First you don't over welm so you have to start with one room at a time for her.While you and her are alone in the room,sit in the floor and just watch her.You will find that to be very enjoyable any way.Be patient though!Here comes some of the weirdness to some,lol.If she doesn't start to warm up to you with in a few day's,by that I mean come and at least sit some where by you.Ok,ready?Act like your cleaning your self like she does,like act like your licking your hands and clean your self like she does.Make sure she see's you do this.The time you have watched her try to immatate some of the things she has done.A lot of the times you just have to be patient and let her get used to her surroundings and most of the time they come around.Just remember all she's had to go through just to get to where she is now.I had one I had to do all the above and more,but eventually she did come around.Getting them fixed helps out a lot some times to.Which I reccomened you do any way.The bun I have now only required that I sit in the room with her for a day and let her do her own thing.Now she follows my every step.She's not old enough to get fixed so she also(since she's the only bun that lives in the house hold now)wants me as her mate(bless her heart,she is soooo confused)Just be patient:-).there are also a lot of websites that can tell you of different things and way's of bonding.Good luck because the relationship you'll have with her will be so well worth the effort.People just don't realize what they are cabable of doing.Happy bonding,Boomer