This thread only confirms my decision to stick to just one cat...
I don't want anyone to think I am suggesting NOT to adopt. I had 13 cats before I ever even had a hint at a problem betwween them. I was just feeling a little sorry for myself and possibly guilty for going overboard.

While it is true that no one WANTS this kind of problem I just felt the need to report that it can happen and maybe I could even end up with a little moral support because I know I am not alone in this problem. (and it is not always due to too many cats, either)

Sometimes our hearts are bigger than our heads