well i wasn't really going to get in to this, because i wasn't realy sure what i thought about it, but i was thinking about it today and i have come to a conclusion:

the reason male "hanky-panky" ( teehee) is not as acceptable as female hanky panky is because hollywood and the media is predominately run by males. and we all know it's a very popular male fantasy to be with two girls at once. so when they make their movies they make it seem like a good thing, and that it's a really sexy fun thing that people should like. and since most males are homophobic they can't make it seem like any male hanky panky would be ok because that might mean they are gay. and since this is what we see and hear all day long this has effected the way we think about stuff like that.

also i was surprised how many people admit they are repulsed by two males together and OK with females together. i would have thought more people wouldn't admit that or even realize that. i have to admit i feel a little more uncomfortable watching males on TV than girls, but that might be because you don't see that very often and it makes you notice it more when you do see it. but i'm not repulsed by any gay hanky panky male or female

*steps off soapbox* so that's my conclusion after thinking about it. lol