Uba, I think you nailed this one. It is about sexiness, not gayness.

I really don't get freaked out by any display of any sort.

Originally posted by 2kitties
I mean, I'm a straight woman who loves men, but even I do not want to see a fully nude man shakin' it on a stage or in a movie or magazine or whatever. In fact, I'd probably be completely repulsed.

Weeeeelllllll, it depends...maybe not 'shakin' IT', but, how about something less?