thanks for all of your replies. I'm definately going to have a talk with him, but I just need to find a time where we can have a private conversation. The latest news on the situation that I have heard (from John Doe's mouth as reitterated by my husband) is that his fiance is having second thoughts about getting married now and wants to postpone the wedding for another six months or so. They are, however, still engaged and John "can't wait". Hopefully I will get the chance to speak with him tommorow night. I do not personally know his fiance. She lives back in the states somewhere. The inappropriate contact that was going on was a lot more than could be characterized as being just a touchy-feely guy. Not to mention that I also personally overheard him talking about what beautiful eyes the new girl has and how sweet her smile is... My personal favorite line was "She talks so softly that you really have to get close and listen" *sigh*