Funny you should say that Tam, my flatmate Karen, was like that too the most sweet, kind and bubbly person, I can remember one thing though, she had a really nice Tongan boyfriend, who she wanted to marry , her parents forbade it, and because of her faith she would not marry him, there was a happy ending though, her parents finally gave permission and she went to live in Tonga with him, and I remember she came back to NZ to have a baby.