That was what I was trying to say, accidents do happen, even avoidable ones, no-one intentionally hurts their pet, I have had such an accident myself, and I have never really forgiven myself, but it was not meant, and everything turned out ok in the end, but still no-one least of all myself would want any harm to come to our beloved pets.

I certainly am not judging Jynelle or her mother, just hoping little merry can be treated and get better soon. Life is hard some times, and we are all dealt things that we don't like from time to time, we can only do the best we can do.