ok. i understand you better now. sorry for the misconception. maybe making it clear to your friends, family, and loved ones that prefer NOT to share that type of information would make them better understand not to annoy/embarrass you. as far as everyone else out there in the world, i'd have a little bit more compassion, as not everyone can know or understand how or what you feel about certain things. we all make mistakes in life and just because its a pet peeve of yours, we may not all know that.

know what i mean? maybe for you to be more accepting of the things we cannot change, will allow these such things not to really get to you