I think having Karen's Mom, and all of us Mom's out here, with you in spirit will be a good thing, Meg!!! I know I would love to hear your concert. I was on the edge of my seat when Helen had her Christmas concert. My husband, Scott, and Helen's dad were unable to attend, but it was perfect, and I loved every minute, and I know they would have too! Helen plays the flute, and has been since she was in 2nd grade. She's now in the 7th grade.

Try not to take your disappointment out on your mom, although I know it is hard not to. Lots of changes in life can bring out all kinds of emotions that your mother probably doesn't understand, let alone you. Maybe you can play her your part as a solo later tonight! And if possible get a tape or video of the concert so she can enjoy it later. Could you possibly take your camera and have someone take pictures?? We'd love to see them!!!!