Thank you so very much for your replys, I would never kick my cat out on the streets, i would find someone who could give her the life she deserves. I love her to pieces and I dont think shes that sad, scince my father spends most of his time in the bacement these days, its been ok for her, the rest of my familly aboulutly adores her. Weve only had her 1 and a half years so ill wait a bit to start considering "putting her up for adoption". I found a cute quot though-
"I got rid of my husband, my cat was allergic"-unonumous