Good on you Micki, thats the spirit, I know my husband show's me too that he loves me, but it still hurts when they seem so thoughtless, and you are the one always being the thoughtful ,romantic one, so keep trying,you will get there in the end, and he will be sooo....suprised. I bet he will appreciate, just being thought of as well., it is the thought that counts in most cases.,.is for me anyhow. cheers.