OMG, that sounds complicated!

First of all, I'm sorry to hear your parents are dealing with these health problems. If your mom really has to go to hopital and you have to care for your dad, I really think there's not enough time left for a foster kitten, especially when your husband doesn't support you.

But I can see you want that kitten so bad, and it would be so great if you could give her a permanent home. Would Nancy keep it for you as long as you have to care for your parents?

As far as your question about the other cats' reaction goes... I guess there's only one way to find out - bring her home!

I'm sorry, I know, I'm no help here!

Kirsten