I wasn't married to him, but when Mike and I broke up, I had this fear.

I picked out Kia, but he was the one that picked her up the next day and paid her adoption fee. He would say one minute, "If we break up, you're taking the dog." to, "I changed my mind, I want Kia."

I knew that if we ever did break up, I had to have her, and thankfully when we did 8 months later, he told me to take Kia.

He did pay for the first few vet visits (when we were together), but after that, I paid for everything. (food, toys, vet, ect.)

It's been two years, but if Mike suddenly changed his mind, could he take Kia? I don't know and that scares me.