Kelly I am so sorry to hear that.

Mothers aren't always right but it is so difficult not to let their opinions bother you.

I know people with Crohn's disease and I know that it is very diffcult to keep up drive once your mineral household is completely mixed up - not to talk about pain. So I think you must accept that you have worse starting conditions than healthy people.

This does not mean you can't reach your target but maybe you need a longer or slower way. You are a very courageous person who puts a lot on her plate - I just have to think about precious Phoebe and Samson. For the sake of all your cats and your husband you should be careful not to overload yourself: take less courses, not adding more fosters etc. I am sure you and David can come up with more ideas.

I am a very impatient person and when I was younger I knew I just could do it, by sleeping less, working harder etc. Now I have to adjust at a different physical situation.

All the best for you.