Kelly, I'm sorry to hear this is bothering you, but I really can't see how your mom is trying to discourage you. I honestly believe she may just be concerned for your health, and as a mother, worries that you're being too hard on yourself. Please don't believe she doesn't have faith in you. I think she's probably just concerned about you. If you feel you can complete your phd without harming your health, do work on it, but if this is hard on you, personally, I too would advise that for your wellbeing, perhaps you should take things easy. Health is the greatest wealth a person can have, so please take care of yourself. You know your potential better than anyone else, so if you believe you have the power to complete your education with good health, go for it. Good luck in your efforts of completing your phd, and start feeling better soon!

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