Ah, let the NEW Cataholic come over here and clear up what I think the problem might be. I don't think cutie_chica meant the true meaning of the word "rude", but, instead, meant something like, "blunt", "direct", "straightforward".

I didn't take the offensive meaning from her use of the word rude that PIF and Moosmom did (course I wasn't the one the term was directed at, either).

As to the unspayed females....I am sure Catspaw gets our meaning....