How very sad Miss Meow, don't you dare apologize for anything. As with all of us, your intentions and remarks were sincere and loving and filled with kindness, caring and concern for a person we considered to be a dear friend. I must say, I was taken quite aback when I read the angry comments in Lut's guestbook. That did hurt. But, I guess we have no recourse but to respect her wishes to be left alone as she chooses not to explain her leaving, as sad as that is