I have only had girlie cats both of whom I absolutely adore, however.....Gigi was always determined to intervene when it came to my love life and frequently caused trouble if ever I had a boyfriend. When the poor guy in question was invited to sit on my sofa (I guess with the silly idea that he would be sitting with me), Gigi would appear out of nowhere and drape herself across his lap, whilst gazing up at him in an adoring fashion, and demanding to be stroked, and of course totally ignore me! If that failed she would just sit between us and refuse to move! Bless her. I wouldn't have swapped her for any male!