I have both. I don't care. I like nice, sincere, funny people that share the same interests I do. I don't care if they are male or female, hetrosexual or homosexual.

I do want to say, however, that I was a bit disturbed reading this thread. I saw some pretty outdated stereotypes thrown around - girls like to talk on the phone about makeup and boys and shop a lot. And a "girly" girl is a bad thing to be.

I also noted that it was women saying these things, for the most part. That is particularly sad to me. If a group of men would have been commenting about silly girly girls painting their nails, talking on the phone and shopping, we would have jumped all over them, and rightfully so. But, here is a group of women, cutting our gender down to the bone. Sad. This isn't a healthy attitude, IMO, and not a climate to raise our daughters in. Are we saying, "If you act like a guy, that's cool. But if you act like a "girly" girl, then that is bad and women aren't going to like you." Hmmmmm..........