I have a 'Smokey' and I love him to death tho I've decided that he is autistic, as he is in his own world. I could say retarded but I say autistic with special needs. I hope that doesn't offend anyone when I say that because I don't want it to but he's like no other cat I've ever experienced and I think I'll start a thread about 'retarded' cats.

anyway, I would love to know why the boys are sweeter than the girls but I don't suppose we'll ever figure that one out.