Well, not to butt in on this thread, but if you are not sure about her Yule and Xmas being a pagan holiday, here is a link I found explaining it a bit (although I am not sure if the author is pagan or not).

http://www.oreenscott.com/tis_the_season.htm

I am with you about the Xmas cards Wolfchan. My husband and I are pagan (I have been pagan for about 10 years now) and we've been looking the past week for some cards of that nature, but the ones available in our closest "pagan friendly" store just aren't quite what we are looking for (design-wise). Besides, for as bad as we are about mailing things on time, people probably wouldn't get their cards until Feb.