I am not sure of the intentions involved. Tigris often goes over to lick Filou but not when Filou could be ready for cuddling. He always starts it when Filou is lying in a place where Tigris would like to be. I think it is a way of bullying and after that telling: "Mom I was only nice. But he backed away from me and went. "

Ok you will tell me that I interpret too much humanity in their behavior but .....