I agree with everyone. Being asked to be in someone is an honor. It truley shows how you appreciate and cherish the people you ask to be your bridesmaids. They take on the task willing and for no monetary gain. I think the gift you selected is very elegant and sweet. If your best friend doesn't like it, tough!! I don't think bridesmade or groomsmen are counting on an expensive gift in return for their friendship! The gift serves as a memoir from the wedding.

If she is truly your best friend, she should know what you are and aren't capable of affording. And it is none of her business what you get for the bridesmaids. It's your gift to them and hot her gift to give or make a decision on! Her behavior is very tacky!